101 ADVENTUROUS + ROMANTIC BUCKET LIST IDEAS FOR COUPLES

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There’s nothing so bonding as reaching your goals as a couple. Setting goals together, planning dreams, and creating bucket lists: these are all incredible and meaningful. So we’re bringing you 101 bucket list ideas for couples, designed to help you dream big and find adventure!

Sharing and pursuing your dreams, going on wild and crazy journeys, and creating an endless treasure chest of experiences…hopefully laughing and smiling all the while!

This is the ultimate bucket list for couples, one that includes not just romantic, sweet relationship to-do’s, but incorporates a hefty dose of adventure & travel.

After all, we believe that all couples should travel together (at least once!) as it’s been one of our favorite life experiences, and it is definitely a relationship-builder.

There are lots of cool bucket list ideas below for you to choose from. We’ve researched and chosen 101 items that we think would create a beautiful, romantic, and well-rounded experience.

This could be a married couples bucket list, an engaged couples bucket list, or a list for duos at any stage of their relationships. And though the majority of these are meant to be shared, there are certainly many things you can do solo, too.

As a couples travel bucket list, we included some of the world’s most famous sites, plus specific places we’ve been that we think were truly amazing. We tried to include a travel experience on every continent.

Of course, these are all just suggestions, and we encourage you to adapt the list and add your own wishes and aspirations. The sky’s the limit!Report this ad

101 Romantic + Adventurous Ideas for Your  Couples Bucket 

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Sleep under the stars

Camp somewhere with spectacular views of the night sky and revel in the mystery of nature.

Swim with wildlife

Dolphins, manta rays, whale sharks, take your pick. Swimming or snorkeling with wildlife is an unbelievable experience.

Stay overnight in a castle

Go back in time and feel like royalty with a stay in a castle. There are a bunch of these castle hotels, especially all over Europe.Report this ad

Travel to a seriously off-the-beaten-path destination

Go where your heart leads, and try to make time for those lesser known spots. The reward will be worth it!

Ride in a hot air balloon

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There are so many incredible places to go hot air ballooning, including Cappadocia, Turkey.

Walk the Great Wall of China

One of the world’s ancient and fascinating wonders.

Play the slot machines in Las Vegas

It’s like a rite of passage, isn’t it? And who knows…maybe you’ll get lucky!

Stay in a super luxurious hotel

You MUST have the experience of a totally luxe hotel stay. Maybe this will be your honeymoon, but don’t wait: find an epic hotel and book it.

Have kids and/or a dog

If you’re ready for the responsibility and commitment, providing care and love is an endlessly rewarding experience.

If not…get some house plants.

Go to a tropical paradise together

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It’s a cliche MUST DO together. Some ideas? ArubaWestern Australia. Bermuda. Fiji. SeychellesZanzibar.

Ride in a helicopter

Such a thrill!

Fly in a private jet

You might need to save your pennies for this, but a ride in your own private jet could be a once-in-a-lifetime must-do.

Go scuba diving

Head deep underwater to discover a brand new world below the surface.

Go snorkeling

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You can also see brilliant colors and abundant wildlife in the shallower parts of the sea. Snorkeling is so much fun.

Eat sushi in Japan

There’s nothing quite as cool as eating authentic local cuisine in its country of origin. If not in Japan, do this somewhere.

Watch each other’s favorite movie

…even if you’re not that interested. Your partner will love you for it!

Run a 5k, marathon, or participate in another physical challenge together

Smash those goals side by side. Then enjoy celebratory beers/cocktails afterward.

Kiss in front of the Eiffel Tower

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Nothing says romantic couple activities like smooching in the most romantic city on Earth. The classic City of Love beckons all lovers to visit.

Ride in a gondola in Venice

Another iconic place to take the love of your life: Venice, Italy. Hop onto a gondola for a delightful ride through its canals.

Paddle a rowboat around a lake

If you’re extra romantic, you’ll sing while you row. An essential addition to your relationship bucket list.

House sit for friends (or while you travel!)

Especially before you’re married, “playing house” while house-sitting for friends is so adorable! Animal lovers should definitely jump on this, as taking care of pets is a fun and bonding experience.Report this ad

Do something crazy & scary – skydiving, bungee jumping, etc

Pick your brand of scary! Skydiving isn’t for everyone… The key is to choose something that excites you both (and freaks you out slightly) and just go for it! How about volcano boarding in Nicaragua? Or Angel’s Pool in Zambia? These are great options for unique and fun things for couples to do.

Learn a new language together

Not only is this beneficial for your travels, it will expand your minds.

Watch a stand-up comedy performance

Oh, the laughter! If possible, see one of your favorite comedians.Report this ad

See where your sweetie grew up: visit one another’s hometowns

That’s where I went to high school! That’s the house I grew up in! Share your memories with your S.O.

Attend a massive New Year’s Eve celebration

Fireworks, champagne ‘a-flowin, revelry. Ring in the New Year in a huge crowd and don’t forget to kiss at midnight.

Feed kangaroos together in Australia

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One of our favorite things to do as a couple is see wildlife. Petting kangaroos was definitely one of the best things we ever did.

Party in Ibiza

Do this while you’re in your 20s or 30s….oh hell, do it whenever you please! Ibiza is the epicenter of European party life.

Take a boat down the Amazon River

One of the most captivating journeys, surely.

Stay at a quaint bed & breakfast–even if it’s in your own town

B&B’s are a totally different experience—and one worth having. Relax and enjoy one another’s company.READ NEXT:  37 Romantic & Adventurous Date Ideas for Fall

Go white-water rafting

Work together & with your group to battle your way down the rapids.

Do something completely unselfish for the other person

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What you do is completely up to you, but do this thing without expecting anything in return.READ NEXT:  8 Real Relationship Goals All Couples Should Strive For

Rock out at a music festival side by side

Music brings people together. Attend a multi-day festival for the full experience.

Admire some of the world’s finest art in Florence

Head to Florence, Italy, or another of the world’s best art destinations to take in the masterpieces.

Visit an epic waterfall

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If possible, bathe in it. Probably not recommended for the powerful waterfall pictured!

Go on a truly unforgettable road trip

Oh, what is better than a couples road trip? It’s one of the coolest ways to experience a country or region and it brings with it its own relationship-boosting challenges.

Rent a campervan and explore New Zealand (or Australia)

If you really want to boost your relationship through some challenges, campervan together around Australia or New Zealand. These are gorgeous destinations, but you’ll really give your relationship a test on such a trip!READ NEXT:  Living the Campervan Life in Australia: Lessons & TipsReport this ad

Kiss in the rain

Just do it. It’s a requirement.

Catch a sunset in Santorini

We really want to cross this off our romantic to do list!

The most romantic sunsets on earth just might be found in this Greek city.

Visit an ancient city

Fancy yourselves intrepid explorers and travel to one of the world’s oldest cities or civilizations.

Act like total tourists in New York City

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Stay in an ice hotel

Seriously cold, but also seriously cool. PS: You can hold each other for warmth!

Explore a rainforest

So many amazing creatures and lush vegetation.

Swing at “the end of the world”

In Ecuador, you can swing at the end of the world. Beautiful views and a bit of a thrill.

Learn to sail

A great challenge for the mind and body, plus tons of fun.Report this ad

Hug a koala, panda, or sloth

If you have a bucket list for travel, perhaps snuggling one of these precious animals is on it. Find a responsible wildlife provider and let your dreams come true.

Drive on the other side of the road

Do you trust your partner? Put their driving skills to the test in a place that drives on the opposite side of the road.

Eat tapas in Barcelona

Barcelona is a gorgeous and delicious city that all couples should explore.

Go in a ferris wheel together

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Whether you’re 15 or 50, this is a classic couples bucket list item.

See the sunrise from the top of a mountain

At some point in your relationship, climb a mountain together before dawn so you can share a spectacular sunrise.

Get a couples massage

True pleasure is an epic body massage for two!

Go on a cruise

Cruises can offer some fantastic destinations. It’s a different way to travel than you might be used to, but it’s one every couple should experience together. Climb onboard!

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Head to Munich for Oktoberfest

A massive festival of beer, food, and fun, Oktoberfest is a travelers’ bucket list item you won’t want to miss. Do it together, wearing a dirndl and lederhosen of course.

Go bowling

A little friendly competition never hurt anyone. Who’s the better bowler of you two?

Go on a safari in Africa

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Make dinner for each other

As part of your relationship bucket list, take turns cooking for each other. Even if you’re not much of a cook and your meal turns out terrible, you’ll make a hilarious memory in the process.

Experience a total eclipse

One of the most phenomenal experiences for us in 2017 was the total solar eclipse that crossed the USA in August. We were honestly utterly in awe at this miracle of nature. You should absolutely plan to witness an eclipse with your sweetheart if possible. Here’s a list of all the upcoming eclipses.

Have a stay-in-bed-all-day weekend

Don’t leave your covers. PJs optional.

See the pyramids in Egypt

An epic site that all people should try to travel to at some point.

Throw a coin in the Trevi Fountain

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Ah romantic Rome! Toss a coin over your shoulder into Rome’s most iconic fountain and legend says you will someday return.

Ride horses along the beach

A pretty breathless experience, to be sure. Pick an insanely beautiful beach. Ride an insanely beautiful horse.

Go to a museum and discuss the exhibits

Be hoity-toity and talk about the merits of each piece of art. Bonus points if you don’t know the first thing about art.

Climb a tall mountain

Push your boundaries and touch an impressive peak. Everest would be good, but any mountain will do!

Stay in a tree house

As a child you no doubt wanted to live in a tree house. Now you can….at least for a few days!

Visit Machu Picchu

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This is definitely one of the Two Drifters’ personal couples bucket list items. Cute llamas, towering green mountains, insane gorgeousness…what more do you need?

Go ice skating

In the winter time, one of the most romantic activities for couples is ice skating, especially if its on a natural pond or lake!

Binge watch a TV show together

Most of these bucket list ideas for couples have you getting out and about, but for this one, it’s all about staying in for the day/night and bingeing an entire series (or at least a season).READ NEXT:  The Ultimate List of Long Distance Relationship Gifts (for Him + Her)Report this ad

Volunteer together

Do something meaningful for your community together.

Visit Disneyland

Bucket list travel ideas: visit Disneyland or Disney World! It’s the happiest place on Earth, and you two will make it even happier!

Fly first class

Hot towels, free drinks. Everyone should travel this way at least once.

Find out how the other takes his coffee

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It’s sweet and intimate, and it makes ordering at Starbucks so much easier.

Drive Australia’s Great Ocean Road

A fabulous road trip is a must for your couples bucket list. One exceptional road trip is Australia’s Great Ocean Road. Witness the stunning coastal formations along this amazing route.

Take a cooking class together

Crafting a delicious meal together is a terrific way to laugh, learn, and eat…plus it will give you meal prep skills for the future.

Go deep sea fishing

Reel in a big one! This is perfect for romantic things to do with your boyfriend, husband, or literally anyone who gets a thrill from catching huge fish!

Be on a game show together

If you can make it happen, nothing would be more memorable than this! Teamwork makes the dream work….and maybe wins you some $$!

Visit a seriously cheesy tourist trap…like the world’s largest ball of twine in Kansas, USA

One of the most memorable things couples can do together is to see a lame tourist icon, and laugh about it together. Don’t forget to take a couples selfie!

Ride camels across the Sahara (or another desert)

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Nathan has already done this…and I am very jealous.

Attend a wine tasting

Sip all the varietals and pick out your favorite to take home.

Dance til dawn

Looking for romantic things to do with your girlfriend? Take her dancing! Dancing is great exercise, of course, but is also undeniably romantic. Stay out all night as you sway to the rhythm of the music.

Go apple picking or berry picking

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Getting out in nature and picking fruit is great in all seasons.

Bake cookies together

After picking apples (or berries) head home and spend some time in the kitchen.

Have a couples book club, and read a book at the same time

Pick a book and take turns reading it loud to one another. Or, check out multiple copies from the library and then discuss a chapter each day.

Build a blanket fort

On a rainy day, stay inside and bring back your childhood by building a blanket and pillow fort in your living room.

Go backpacking in Southeast Asia

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Backpacking is a classic travel bucket list item, and SE Asia is an outstanding place to do it. It’s budget friendly, warm, full of good food, beautiful beaches, and rich culture. You could also consider backpacking through Europe or another part of the world.

Attend a sports game together

Grab your honey and go and cheer on your favorite pro sports team.

Charter a yacht

Luxury living for a week! Charter a private yacht somewhere glorious.

Eat dinner on a balcony with a stunning view

Dinner is all about the company…and the view. There are some amazing restaurants out there, and some luxury hotels with fab views. Room service, anyone?Report this ad

Write love poems to one another

Go ahead, be sappy. There’s something seriously sweet and genuine about writing poetry for one another.

Get “snowed-in” in a cozy cabin

Let it snow! Let it snow! Rent a cabin in the mountains and pray for a blizzard!READ NEXT:  Most Romantic Winter Destinations

Go to a county fair

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A county fair is so laid back and full of sights, sounds, and smells! Ride the rides and eat a gigantic funnel cake.

Visit Rio during Carnival

One of the world’s most famous events, Carnival, is a great bucket list choice for couples.

Host a couples game night

More team fun! Invite over a few couple friends and play your favorite board games.

Stay in an overwater bungalow

Have you seen those gorgeous overwater bungalows in tropical places? What a dream! Being only steps away from the tea is utter paradise.

Go sledding

When the snow has freshly fallen, grab a sled and fly in tandem down a hill.

Have sex outside

Even the most special bucket lists for couples may not include this item, but it’s an exciting must for you and the one you love. Always be safe and be courteous! A private outdoor space is definitely recommended!

Drink whisky, eat haggis, and explore the highlands in Scotland

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Scotland is intrinsically romantic. In fact, it’s where we Two Drifters first met! Travel the mystical highlands together, indulge in whisky, and fall deeper in love.

Meet each other’s parents

This relationship rite of passage is a big one.

Soak in Iceland’s Blue Lagoon

Iceland is a hot destination, and the Blue Lagoon is one of the most romantic spots of all. Go soak with your partner and reap the benefits of the healing, soothing hot springs.

Help one another through a sickness (not fun, but extremely bonding!)

At one time or another in your relationship, one of you will get sick. Taking care of your significant other is an act of love that will bring you closer than ever before.

Stand in awe at the Grand Canyon

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Together, you must stand in awe of one of the most spectacular places on earth.

Share your true feelings

No matter what adventures you take with your partner, be sure to pursue the most amazing adventure of all: love.

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